Margaret, who moved into Athelstan House last year, has been visiting the home for the last 20 years, to go to its Day Care centre and sometimes for respite care when her son Nigel was out of town. Margaret enjoys living at the home, she said: “Everything here is lovely. You are never alone.”

Nigel helped her to take the decision to look for a care home, after a frank discussion where he expressed concern about her ability to cope with living independently, especially the risk of night-time falls. Choosing a care home is a difficult decision, but the pair have been very happy with Margaret’s move to Athelstan House. Nigel explained: “Mum is a free spirit, and we like that she is still able to do what she wants to do. From the moment I walked through the door I felt comfortable and happy that my mother would be well looked after. It’s the community that is so important.”

There is never time to get bored or lonely - as Margaret said: “Most of us came to have companionship and that’s wonderful here in Athelstan House. The activities never stop, it’s really lovely.”

Margaret especially enjoys baking cakes in a group, led by volunteer Issy.

For Nigel, his mum’s move to the care home has brought peace of mind. He said: “Mum is advanced in years, she’s done well to look after herself to the age of ninety-six, but cooking for herself has become more challenging.  It’s nice that she can come here and focus on community, and not be concerned about what to eat and looking after herself.”

Margaret sums up her impression of the home: “It’s lovely! The staff are very kind people, very good at seeing someone’s needs. I don’t have to worry about getting my own food. With the friendships everyone is so kind, it’s very good for me.”